I’m dieing ;____; I know this feel

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samparty:

queenston:

the “bits you have” is your sex. your gender is something that goes on in your head. it is the identity you have, whether chosen or accepted. i hate gender because of the shitty stigmas both sides of the binary coin have, because the problems with social gender roles make it hell for people to find their identity, and because i spent a solid 10 years of my life unsure where i sat in the “big picture” of gender identity.

i do not identify as one or the other or even anything in between. i don’t care what pronouns i am referred to by. i simply do not believe gender is a necessary component of one’s identity. i enjoy its use in creative works, and the fact that male and female binary roles exist so concretely makes it fun to fuck around with gender and make it your own thing and wear it and act it as you see fit. but i do not like the fact that people are pushed to identify as something when they are unsure, and do not like the fact that despite “identity positivity,” there is still a strong push to label yourself.

there are specific names for all sorts of gender identities, sexualities, etc, and they’re all just plot points on a big spectrum. people torture themselves over trying to choose one of these plot points because we’re a bunch of logic-seeking creatures that have to categorize and organize or information. it’s how we’re raised. i’ve seen people torn apart over this shit - stewing over where they fit, where they don’t, and even pushing themselves to fit under one of these umbrella terms - and it’s completely unnecessary. identity positivity is simply “you”. there is no need for gender labels, sexuality labels, or anything. there is just you.

of course, this is on a personal and social level. legal stuff is a completely different ballpark and not something that’s about to go and change itself.

this is exactly how I feel about it and you put it into words better than I ever could. thank you, renard :D I feel peace of mind reading this

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